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Again, this will vary from girl to girl, but generally, if we like someone, we’ll message them back pretty quickly. She may no longer feel as comfortable being that friendly because in her heart she wants more. If you had quite a close, affectionate relationship before and she suddenly stops touching you or starts treating you differently to the way she does other guys you both know, something’s probably up. Even if she doesn’t come over to you and goes to her friends instead, the fact she’s checking to see if you’re there is a very good sign, as it means you’ve been on her mind. On the other hand, and because we’re nothing if not contrary, another sign (especially if nothing has happened between you yet) is that she literally never looks at you.
Now that you know these six flirting signs and a few key contexts to apply them in, you are well on your way to more easily noticing when women like you. If she’s outgoing: On the other hand, she might CREATE opportunities for more closeness with you, so that she can be near you and feel how strong and safe you are. If she’s shy: If she feels this too, she might be SHY to be close to you (even while maybe blushing and feeling happy) precisely because she knows it would excite her even more. It’s been that way for years, and the thought that she might feel the same excites you to no end. Since you’ve just met, you’re not sure if she’s smiling extra because she’s talking to YOU or if she is just a smiley person in general.
If she’s interested and forward, she’ll be looking at you and will maintain eye contact when you lock eyes. If you talk slow, is she suddenly talking slower than usual?
That’s why I like to leave pauses when I’m in a date with a girl: precisely to get her to fill in the blanks and to invest in the conversation. She tries to avoid pauses during the conversation the same way some guys would try to avoid pauses during a conversation with a girl they want to seduce. That’s especially true if you’ve just met her or if you don’t really know her yet (she can even use this compliment to start a conversation with you; I speak from experience). If a girl compliments you—whether it is on your shirt, on your shoes, or whatever—chances are that she’s attracted to you. In the same way, if a girl doesn’t smile at you, it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s not attracted to you.
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. Now that you know how to tell if a girl likes you dating can actually be fun. You can always take a leap of faith, but by looking for the signs a girl likes you before you ask her out you’re way more likely to get the answer you hoped for.
She might also smile more around you, or act more awkward than she does around other people. If the girl you like objects to your romantic advances, even when you thought she liked you back, don’t take it personally. If she says no, you can change the conversation to something else.
She’s ready to invest money, in addition to time and energy. A girl who buys you a drink (or who wants to buy you a drink) is a girl who values your company and wants to invest in you. It’s not the strongest indicator of sexual interest, since she could do this with a friendzoned guy, but it’s better than nothing.
If she’s down to hang out when you suggest something and doesn’t even check to see if she’s busy, that’s definitely a good sign that she’s into you. She wants to be closer to you at all times and that is a sure sign that you impress her. When she is having a conversation with friends and she sees you approaching or in a nearby place, she will break from her friends and come to where you are. Her arms are open wide when she is talking to you and that could be interpreted to mean ‘I’m open for you.’ In other words it’s a sort of unconscious way to encourage you to approach her.
If you know what to look for, you will get better and better at reading body language. This is a woman’s way of inviting you to make a move.
Of course, be careful where you touch her and don’t do it inappropriately. Just like her feet, the body subconsciously turns towards the person they’re interested in. – If her feet are pointing towards you, that’s a really good sign. According to psychologists, this is one of the best nonverbal cues to know if someone likes you. They might be the type that will give you more attention instead.
However, if she makes eye contact with you for an extended period of time without talking, or if she looks at you and breaks away the minute you look back at her, she may be intrigued by you. If you are having an intense conversation, a girl may look at you without breaking eye contact.