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It’s just her way of urging you to action. We are very busy with responsibilities, alright. But if she takes time out of her hectic schedule to start a conversation with you, it is clear that you are a special person to her.
In the same chapter, Hussey notes that most men are pretty clueless at picking up body language. As such, he tells women that flashing a guy a quick glance across the room isn’t enough, because, for all he knows, she might just be looking for the bathroom or scanning the room.
If a woman is standing really close to you in a crowded bar, it’s very likely that she’s just trying to speak without shouting. But if you’re in an environment with acceptable noise levels and a fair amount of space, and she’s still leaning into you, there’s a good chance she wants you to ask her out. Just make sure you don’t shoot yourself in the foot by blurting out one of The 17 Worst Things a Man Can Say to a Woman. asking me what am I doing, are you hungry, you can come over if you want, or ask me if I want to go like the store with her.
I don’t need to tell you that’s incredibly difficult to figure out whether a girl likes you or not. Don’t fret if the girl you like doesn’t initiate a conversation with you. If she likes you, she may be too shy or nervous to do so! Even if she seems like the most confident girl you know, she may have had a bad experience in the past or simply may not be ready to approach you yet but will be receptive if you start the conversation first. Notice if she makes excuses to talk to you.
If you see pictures of yourself on any of her social channels, it’s one of the great signs a girl likes you. If you can learn to read the signs she likes you, you can take the fear of rejection totally out of the picture. By using the signs that a girl likes you to guide you on your search you can be more confident that she’ll say yes and that you’ll have a great time with her.
What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.
Because that’s what you do when you like someone—you make an effort to engage with their interests and the things that they love to do. This one’s a classic. It’s hard to explain why, but whenever I have a crush on someone, their name just feels so good to say out loud!
If you’re already friends, starting a conversation will be easy. In this case, the most effective way to tell if she likes you is to pick up on body language cues or to see if she treats you differently than she does her other friends.
There just might be a bit of a wait if I get flooded with questions when I’m busy doing other things. Long before you move on to kissing and other physical interactions, there will always be at least some intimacy even at the early stages of the relationship. A girl who likes you will not be able to resist touching you, and that’s exactly how you can tell she’s interested. A conversation between a man and a woman is a two-way street, and if all she wants to talk about is herself, it likely means that she is not only not interested in you, but is self-obsessed and possibly a narcissist.
And don’t think you can sway her by talking yourself up or negging her or doing whatever other dumb PUA technique you read about from some blog post written in 2009. It won’t work, and you’ll just come off as a desperate, creepy dude. Just as observing an anomaly in a tactical situation doesn’t automatically mean there’s a threat, an anomaly in the world of romantic social cues doesn’t automatically mean a woman wants to sleep with you, marry you, or even go on a date with you. All it means is she has an initial attraction to you and is open to your making a first move. That could be a conversation, a dance, or you asking her out on a date.