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(Hey, nobody said this was easy.) Fishing for confirmation by asking questions of whether or not a girl likes you comes off as unattractive and demonstrates a lack of confidence… remember you are trying to impress her. Do her friends say hey whenever they see you, even though they hardly know you? It’s most likely because she’s spoken to them about you at length. A girl might not openly tell a guy that she’s into him but she will tell her squad so if they know who the hell you are and seem to like you too then it’s probably because she’s really into you and has been talking you up massively. Hell, they’ve probably group stalked your social media profiles too.
I do see her smile in conversations. But one time she asked me to give her signs on a boy liking her and implied it was me. She usually seems happy when talking to me. I haven’t seen her act the way she does around other guys.
After all, if she weren’t interested, chances are she wouldn’t even be looking you’re way that often, much less smiling at you all the time. One of the best ways to avoid the possibility of rejection is to make sure that the girl you’re asking on a date likes you, too. Of course, this can be tricky, since girls aren’t always upfront with their feelings. Like we said, they expect the guy to be the one to initiate conversation, so the chances of them just coming right out and saying they are interested in you are pretty slim. Every once in a blue moon you may have a girl who flirts with you first, and even more rarely a girl may invite you to attend an event with her, but she still won’t usually call it a date.
Are there girls who watch all your IG, Snapchat or FB stories without fail? Unless they’re your family or close friends then it’s a good sign that they like you or else why on earth would they be keeping up with your exploits?
And if she sends you an emoji like 😘, she is hurling a handkerchief straight at your face. For some expert guidance on boosting your virtual exchanges, check out I Hired an Online Dating Coach and This Is What I Learned. But given what social media addicts we all are these days, if a woman doesn’t check her phone once in the span of 30 minutes, that means she’s at least engaged enough that you should feel comfortable to ask if you should continue the conversation over drinks sometime.
Women don’t usually do that, they just expect the guy to know when to make a move. And it’s all about reading her sub communication. There are certain things women do that tell a guy she’s interested.
If possible, try and observe her while she’s talking to a platonic friend; that can help give you a baseline of how often she normally blinks. If a girl’s going out of her way to make physical contact with you, she’s signaling her interest and, in most cases, implicitly expressing a desire for you to reciprocate that physical contact.
And don’t think you can sway her by talking yourself up or negging her or doing whatever other dumb PUA technique you read about from some blog post written in 2009. It won’t work, and you’ll just come off as a desperate, creepy dude. Just as observing an anomaly in a tactical situation doesn’t automatically mean there’s a threat, an anomaly in the world of romantic social cues doesn’t automatically mean a woman wants to sleep with you, marry you, or even go on a date with you. All it means is she has an initial attraction to you and is open to your making a first move. That could be a conversation, a dance, or you asking her out on a date.
This one also needs to be taken in context. I write about sex a lot, so I often talk to men about oral sex the way that an anthropologist discusses the mating rituals of an exotic tribe, and men have gotten the wrong idea more than once as a result. But many women aren’t as comfortable speaking openly about sex.