Read more about how to tell if a woman likes you here.
This might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation. Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and when someone else is talking, you two get eye contact. Does she give you a slight smile?
While that’s the downside to this, always keep a positive chin up! You can always ask her directly or even drop your own hints and see if she picks it up, whatever your decision may be, remember that love is a fun adventure.
If a girl is either neutral to your or thinks you’re disgusting she’s most likely gonna keep a professional distance from you whether she knows you or not. So, if she’s actively decided to stand very close to you then there’s a reason for it. For all our ~feminine mystery~, girls are actually pretty upfront about our feelings. If we really just see someone as a friend, we’ll say it, and we’ll mean it.
She likes you, wants to be close to you and is hoping that you’ll realise it and do something about it. Remember that most girls don’t even think they’re allowed to be direct with guys they like. They literally think it’s a social no-no so this is the sort of subtle thing they’ll do to get your attention. This one’s probably gonna rock your world but it’s still very fucking true.
Well, first of all, rejection isn’t the end of the world. It’s a normal part of life, and it has nothing to do with your value as a person or your self-esteem!
She also said she could use a hug from me last night but I live 1 hour away from work. My problem is I’m lesbian and she to me comes off as a straight woman so I’m a bit confused as to how I should take her gestures. She knows I’m a lesbian and she has never really replied with her preference. So should I take it as she is just friendly with me because she does not act like that with others or should I just let it ride out. Okay so we talk on Snapchat and sometimes after swimming she will send me pictures of her by the pool she will answer my snaps sometimes right away and other times it will take her a bit.
Why shouldn’t they? The same thing applies to girls — if you assume they like you, they probably will. When people are in a group conversation they’ll often angle themselves towards the person they’re either most interested in or attracted to. Let’s say you’re in a group of friends and one of the girls is facing you rather than someone else then that should tell you something about where her interest lies. On a slight tangent, notice that when girls post pics with guys who they’re not in relationships with they’ll usually make a point of letting everyone know he’s just a friend in the post, they’ll say something like ‘Had a great time with my brother from another mother today!
She might make jokes about this girl being your crush or girlfriend, which is just an attempt to get you to tell her if you like the girl or not. Of course, there is a point where jealousy may be a red flag, especially if she acts controlling.
So this girl I work with, just told me she wants to be my best friend (I know, I got friend zoned). But I she feel wants to be more than friends. She playfully hits me, is nervous when she’s around me, and it seems like she forgets what she wanted to tell me sometimes.